Tuesday, February 13, 2018
CRESTLINE ELEMENTARY SCHOOL
ALL IN MOUNTAIN BROOK is excited to bring you the second All In Parenting Conference: Elementary Edition. Our conference in November focused on adolescents and teenagers. For our upcoming February 18 conference, we have an excellent line-up of speakers who will address issues and topics relevant to parents of elementary school children. We had a great turnout and very positive feedback from our elementary conference last year and are looking forward to seeing you on February 13.
There is no cost to attend the conference. Parents may register for up to three sessions from the selections below. Please note: If you are unable to be present for the entire evening, please feel free to come late or leave early and catch the talks as your schedule allows.
If you can, please join us at 5:30 pm for a brief opening session with Mountain Brook Schools Superintendent Dr. Dicky Barlow. His talk will be “Power Dinners: Strengthening Our Families at the Table.”
General Session: 5:30-5:45: Dr. Barlow
Breakout Session I: 5:50-6:30 PM
Breakout Session II: 6:33-7:13
Breakout Session II 7:15-7:55
Double Session: 5:50-7:10 PM “How to Help Your Child Build Healthy Peer Relationships” (see workshop “A”
Read below about the talks we are offering. For each breakout slot (Session I, II, III) pick the talk you plan to attend. Workshop A, on peer relations, spans both Sessions I and II.
You may revisit this link later to change your choices. You should receive a confirmation email after you register. You will be able to print your schedule and bring it with you to remind yourself of the talks you have chosen.
Opening Session: Power Dinners: Strengthening Our Families at the Table (5:30-5:45 PM)
Dr. Dicky Barlow
The power of the family dinner is well-documented in social sciences research. Families who sit down together for meals have a lower incidence of alcohol and drug abuse among the kids and other types of risky behavior. In addition, the family dinner provides opportunities to build values and character. In this talk, Dr. Dicky Barlow will offer suggestions about an approach to getting the most out of the family meal.
Richard “Dicky” Barlow is superintendent of Mountain Brook Schools. Dr. Barlow received his B.S. and Certification in Science Education and Masters of Education in Administration and Supervision at Georgia State University. He earned his Ed.S. in Educational Administration at the University of Montevallo and his doctorate at Samford University.
A. How to Help Your Child Build Healthy Peer Relationships
(DOUBLE WORKSHOP COMBINING SESSIONS I & II, 5:50-7:10)
Panel Discussion: Kari Kampakis, Laurie King, Alice Churnock, Sharon Lyerly
Many parents find themselves concerned about their children’s peer relationships. Our children sometimes feel left out or hurt, or unable to cope with the difficulties and disappointments they encounter with their friendships. As adults, how do we respond? How do we teach kindness and empathy while also equipping our kids to stay strong when others hurt them? Join us for a panel discussion to discuss these timely topics.
PANEL: Laurie King is principal of Crestline Elementary. Kari Kampakis is a Mountain Brook mother and author. Alice Churnock practices counseling at Covenant Counseling Center. Sharon Lyerly is the 9th-grade counselor at Mountain Brook Junior High.
B. 10 Practical Tips for Parenting a Child with ADHD
Elizabeth B. B. Lee, Ph.D.
Children with ADHD can be a challenge to parent. Their behaviors and symptoms can wear on patience. This often leaves parents feeling frustrated, overwhelmed, and concerned about their relationship with their child. We’ve all heard about how medications and accommodations in school can help children with ADHD, but what else can parents do at home to promote their child’s success and sense of well-being? How can small changes make a big impact for these children?
Elizabeth B. B. Lee, Ph.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist with Ackerson and Associates. She specializes in pediatric psychology and is available for psychological evaluation, therapy, and physician and school consultation. Her primary interests are in ADHD and other learning problems, anxiety, and adjustment to chronic medical conditions. She is also interested in pain management, concussion, and behavioral pediatrics.
C. Exit Strategies: How to Begin Now to Help Your Child Cope with Danger During the Teenage Years
Dale Wisely, Ph.D.
Your child will be a teenager before you know it. When that time comes, your teenager will find himself or herself in high-risk situations. In the car with a reckless driver. At a gathering where teenagers are drinking. At a party with a peer with less-than-honorable intentions. Your teenager may well want out of those situations but may not know how to get out without embarrassment or being seen as uncool. In this talk, Dr. Wisely will outline a method of raising our kids to have the skills to recognize, avoid, and gracefully get away from dangerous situations. To be most effective in using this method, the earlier the parent starts, the better!
Dale Wisely, Ph.D. is Director of Student Services at Mountain Brook Schools and has been a child & adolescent psychologist for 35 years.
D. The Fruits of Successful Parenting: How Great Kids are Raised
Jerry and Amanda Hood
Jerry and Amanda Hood, as educators, have worked with countless teenagers, experience which has allowed them to know some great kids. In this presentation, the Hoods, who are raising four children of their own, will share the parenting practices they have noted among the parents of their most successful students.
Jerry Hood is a retired educator, athletic director, and head football coach from the Birmingham area. He has worked for over thirty years with families to develop students and student-athletes into productive young adults through athletics. He is currently volunteer coaching at Briarwood Christian School and marketing sports apparel with Team Sports.
Amanda Hood is the principal at Mountain Brook High School. She has served as a school administrator in the Birmingham area for the past 20 years after teaching math at the high school level. She also had the opportunity to coach young women and work with a variety of clubs and student organizations throughout her time in education. Jerry and Amanda have four teenage children.
E. Too Much Of a Good Thing:
Raising Your Child Against the Ladder of “Success”
Rev. Rich Webster
Every gift has a “shadow side,” and this is no exception in a driven, success-oriented community. This talk is intended to highlight the pitfalls and dangers of excessive expectation and healthy alternatives for relationship building.
The Reverend Rich Webster has been the Rector (Senior Minister) Of Saint Luke’s in Crestline since 2004, and with Ellen has raised two children in the Mountain Brook School System. He is both a fan of and an advocate for children.
F. Parenting and Social Media
Dr. Andrea Hendricks
The explosion of ownership and use of personal digital devices in recent years has left many parents concerned and bewildered. What dangers do these technologies pose to our children? How can parents make wise decisions about introducing children to social media? How can parents encourage safety and good citizenship among their children, while acknowledging the potential for positive use of social media and digital technology?
Andrea Hendricks, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist who practices in Mountain Brook. She works with adults, adolescents, and couples through a range of issues, including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, pain management, and weight management. She enjoys working with adolescents dealing with life/school stress, body image issues, and decision-making.
G. Parenting the Child with Challenges: Taking Care of Yourself So You Can Take Care of Them
George Casey, LPC
Parenting is not easy. But when we are parents of children who pose special challenges: Medical, developmental, behavioral, emotional, and other concerns, we can experience fatigue, distress, and conflict. In this workshop, George Casey will lead a discussion of the importance of parents taking care of themselves so that they can take good care of their children with challenges.
George Casey, LPC is the Executive Director of IMPACT Family Counseling. George is a Licensed Professional Counselor and National Board Certified Counselor. IMPACT provides counseling to adults, adolescents, and couples in outpatient clinics in Vestavia and Birmingham.
IMPACT provides counselors who serve at-risk youth and special needs students in 5 different school systems covering over 30 different schools. IMPACT provides a specialized day treatment school for students in need of a special education setting. IMPACT is a nonprofit United Way of Central Alabama agency providing counseling to over 1,000 families annually.
H. Childhood Stress and the Struggle for Perfection
Many parents, educators, and others who work with children note that stress, worry, fear and anxiety are growing problems of youth, even among pre-adolescents. The concept of shame is one helpful way of understanding what is behind much of the stress and anxiety experienced by youth. In this presentation, Cameron Cole will offer insight into the conceptualization of the role of shame in childhood stress and offer practical tips to reduce your child’s anxiety.
Cameron Cole is the Director of Children, Youth, and Family at the Cathedral Church of the Advent. He studied at Wake Forest (B.A and MAEd) and is currently pursuing a degree at Reformed Theological Seminary (MDiv). He is the chairman of Rooted: Advancing Grace-Driven Student Ministry and author of Gospel-Centered Youth Ministry (Crossway) and Therefore I Have Hope: 12 Truths That Comfort, Sustain, and Redeem in Tragedy (Crossway, July 2018).